What Do Cupid, A Feisty Redhead & A Flirty Good Looking Guy All Have In Common…?

Does my title of my blog most sound like the starting of a bad joke, well I assure you it’s not but it is how my high school years started out and ended all at the same time. To put everything in a nutshell you will read about some brief happenings that actually did happen and boy do I ever hope the flirty good looking bully reads this post and yes he knows who he is and I hope he comments too. 

 

CupidFeisty Redhead  Flirty Good Looking Guy

When Cupid sets out on a mission to bring a couple together he doesn’t care where they are and I can verify this because Cupid found not only me but some flirty good looking bully. As the saying goes always be leary of something that seems to good to be true but then despite all the alarm bells in my Gut telling me this guy is just going to cause you heartache and trouble but I stopped listening to my Gut when my Heart took over when the good looking guy started flirting with me and not just one or two times either the whole way through high school. The flirting started innocently enough but never in my wildest dreams did I think a guy that what us adult women call well… man candy and I assure you he is the exact definition of man candy good looking and clueless. Eventually after awhile he convinced me he had feelings for me not to mention he also convinced me to love him.

After many years waiting for him to ask me out which he never did do, being a Redhead I was a feisty and somewhat bold girl so what did I do but confront when he was alone by the lockers and I asked him out and what happened next was was something I definitely was not suspecting he would do. OH sure I expected that he would tell me no but at the same time I was hoping for the best but then he yelled and screamed his answer which was a big fat no but then he went on a yelling and screaming rant that was so bad that I could not understand what he was saying. Girls when a guy tells you that phrase me thinks the lady protests to much when you deny liking someone guess what, I can wholeheartedly verify that it happens to men too. How do I know this well because I confronted this guy and he screamed a yelled so much and was so adamant that he did not have feelings and was protesting so much it was quite obvious that because he was protesting so much he was denying any feelings he had so in this guy’s case I would say me thinks the guy protests to much. Although I may have walked away disappointed, I also walked away with a smug happy look on my face because what I reading in his body language, his smiles, his quick stares, his long stares and his Eyes were that he was a guy that had feelings for a very unpopular girl – Me.

After he had told me no, screamed and yelled at me and was so adamant that it wasn’t funny I thought he would quit his flirting with but OH NO he continued flirting with me and showing me that he had feelings he gave me the best gifts I could have gotten from anyone and I got them from a good looking flirty guy who was also probably my bully. You all must realize he didn’t give me physical gifts but the better kind the kind I really needed and those gifts he gave to me were Compassion, Hope and the best gift he gave me was Love so I must thank him for that and if he ‘s reading this because of him he’s the one that convinced me to fall hard in love with him and because of this, I will always remember him and love him no matter what and whatever he is doing I hope he is happy. 

So in the end Cupid completed most of his mission because his arrows hit the bullseye on both Hearts of the Feisty Redhead and the Flirty Good Looking Guy who might be a bully too and though Cupid tried with all his power and might the Flirty Good Looking Guy denied his feelings for the Feisty Redheaded girl and left her scorned without a word of explanation. When True Love comes a knocking let it happen and don’t deny it because you never know when it will show up. May True Love find you all!!